Welcome to Season 7, episode 3 of the Legends Podcast with Sarah Furuya.

This week I celebrate 21 years of being with my partner, my love, my husband, my housemate. When it comes to relationships and marriage, my husband Kei and I have it absolutely solved…PERFECT. And in this episode, as a life coach, I will be telling you the definitive list of to-dos for your perfect relationship.

NO NO NO

Let it be known that this is simply creative musing, and while I am a Relationship Systems Coach with a slew of techniques for working with relationships and couples - NOT a counselor, NOT a marriage expert and certainly no Esther Perel nor John Gottman (although I highly recommend their work), this is simply my half of our story; our legend.

21 years ago, in a long-since-closed British pub in a town in Tokyo called Takadanobaba, I met this chatty, confident, handsome young man while watching a band. I was filled with far too much Guinness (see previous episodes about that - I actually fell off my bike as he took me home that night yet we stayed together since) yet I knew there was something special about this no-nonsense, no-bullshit dude who approached me. I liked him and it quickly grew to love as we explored Tokyo together on our bicycles.

We have been together since and while I take absolutely nothing for granted - and I do mean NOTHING for granted, I do want to tell the story of the myth and the legend of Sarah and Kei. 

And so whilst traveling around Tokyo and surroundings these past weeks, I made a list of things that I think about our relationship. We have reinvented ourselves over and over, had points of discussion about the future and had something of a renaissance in the past year as we emerged from the Pandemic bruised, couples coached, much therapy (on my side) and newly sober (Ep 1 and 2) with many changes in relationships around us. We reassessed everything, including our relationship and I share my two guiding questions that influence my decision.

And in this episode you can hear my creative musings on this…

In this episode you’ll hear:

• The two questions that guide Sarah in her relationship
• How they keep the home-fires burning!
• The ultimate secret to a perfect relationshi……LOL not really. Seriously though. No.
• How we culture our relationship, and each other, very deliberately 
• That our parents and grandparents may also have had an influence on us

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